When conversations feel confusing, tense, or distant… here’s how you get back on the same page, even if things got heated.
My Communication Tools®
Most people were never taught how to communicate in general, so of course challenging or important interactions feel harder.
You don’t need more silence, more arguments, or more “we’ll talk later.”
You need clear, simple tools that actually help you talk without feeling defensive, shutting down, or getting angry.
This is the proven framework for everyone—individuals, couples, and even avoiders who want to speak up, feel more in control, and feel more connected.
(No scripts—just your words and proven common-sense strategies.)
You won't find these easy- to-follow, powerful, and affordable tool anywhere else!
We all know that moment when a conversation goes off track and we’re not sure what to do next.
So we guess.
We overthink.
We shut down, or we say too much.
We hope the tension will fade on its own, but it doesn’t.
Maybe you keep thinking “I should speak up… I should say something… but I don’t know how.”
Maybe you do this with your partner, a parent, a friend, or someone at work.
And that takes a toll.
It creates distance.
It creates misunderstandings.
It creates stress you carry around all day.
Eventually, it chips away at your confidence in the relationship and in yourself.
You start walking on eggshells.
Or replaying old conversations.
Or avoiding new ones because you don’t want to make things worse.
None of that means something is “wrong” with you or the relationship.
It just means you were never taught a better way.
But staying in this cycle?
That’s what keeps things stuck.
Now imagine if conversations didn’t feel so heavy or confusing.
Imagine knowing what to say, and how to say it, without second-guessing yourself or worrying it will make things worse.
Imagine feeling steady instead of reactive.
Clear instead of confused.
Connected instead of distant.
What if you could talk about the hard things calmly…
and actually feel heard?
What if you could speak up without shutting down, without getting defensive, and without that familiar knot in your stomach?
And what if improving your conversations didn’t require hours of therapy, a big time commitment, or memorizing scripts — just a simple, practical framework you can use with anyone?
That’s the shift people experience every day when they learn these tools.
Real People. Real Results.
Proof that simple, practical tools can transform conversations, lower tension, and bring people closer.
Debra has a way of breaking things down into practical terms, making you feel as if she’s talking to you. Whether you're dealing with relationship challenges, emotional struggles, or just want stronger communication skills, My Communication Tools is filled with valuable insights that work, and you'll feel the difference right away.
- Phoebe Kessler, LCSW
This program completely transformed my relationship with my teenage daughter. We went from constant tension, to a healthy, loving relationship with mutual respect. The tools are simple, clear, and they work. I use them every day.
- Shirley Catalano
The lessons are short, engaging, and easy to apply. These tools helped me find the right words for tough conversations, and they can strengthen every relationship that matters to you. It's a program everyone can benefit from.
- Steve Lassman
These skills should have been taught in school — but they weren’t.
We learned math, science, and English…
not how to talk when we’re hurt, stressed, or unsure what to say.
We weren’t taught how to handle misunderstanding, how to stay calm in conflict, or how to communicate in a way that actually brings people closer.
So we do the best we can.
We repeat what we saw growing up.
We fall into habits that don’t really work, like avoiding hard topics, overexplaining, shutting down, or getting reactive.
That’s not a character flaw.
It’s a skill gap.
And once you learn the right tools, everything changes—your confidence, your clarity, your relationships, and the way you show up in every conversation.
These skills aren’t complicated, they’re just new.
And when you finally learn them, everything gets easier.
This isn’t just another communication course.
It’s a proven, practical system you can use in every part of your life.
Every important relationship needs a strong foundation, and while earlier is always easier, it’s never too late to build one.
You can make meaningful changes even if the other person isn’t ready, isn’t interested, or doesn’t know how to meet you there yet.
These tools are simple to follow and designed to support your mental well-being, strengthen your sense of personal agency, and help you feel more confident and steady, at home, at work, and in every interaction you have.
Meet Debra Roberts, LCSW,
creator of the program
With 30+ years of professional experience as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, trauma-trained clinician, and business consultant, Debra has helped thousands of people transform the way they communicate.
After seeing consistent, fast, and lasting results with her clients, Debra created her proven and proprietary communication model—The Relationship Protocol®—a practical, common-sense approach that anyone can use.
She is a columnist for Inc.com, where she has written more than 60 articles on communication, leadership and workplace culture. Her work has also been featured in The New York Times, The Cut, Business Insider, and other leading publications. Debra has been a guest on top podcasts like So Money with Farnoosh Torabi, Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore, and Why Not Do Both with Kellie Sbrocchi.
Now, she's bringing these same life-changing tools to you for only $79, driven by her mission to create a kinder, more peaceful world where we can talk to each other, even about our differences.
🛠️ For therapists, coaches, and all mental health professionals
These tools aren't just for your clients. They're for you, too.
Take the program, learn this method, integrate it into your sessions, and recommend it to the people you support.
It strengthen your sessions, speeds up progress, and helps clients communicate better—in your office and everywhere else. It truly makes everything easier!
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What's Inside My Communication Tools®
✔ 10 Short, On-Demand Lessons (10-15 minutes each) – Learn the proven communication principles in a way that fits your schedule. Each lesson is easy to follow and designed to help you learn about yourself while strengthening your communication skills.
✔ Workbook – Apply what you learn with quick, simple, and insightful exercises. Your answers are private — just for you.
✔ 30 Days of Accountability Reminders – Get quick, encouraging text messages to help you stay on track.
✔ Check-In Journal – Reflect on your progress and track your growth.
Here's How It Works: (It’s Simple!)
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Log in and get started with a quick welcome video.
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Watch the 10 bite-sized lessons and go at your own pace.
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Personalize your experience and learn about yourself by answering a few reflection questions in your Workbook and Check In Journal.
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Use the tools in your conversations and see results fast in your daily interactions and relationships.
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Track your progress which helps you to build confidence, feel more in control, and improve your connections.
Your Conversations Shape Your Life
- Don’t let another day pass wishing things were different.
- Stop replaying old conversations, wondering what you should have said.
- Take control and get in the driver's seat. Be the one who sets the tone for yourself, your family, and future generations.
Please don't wait for someone else to change, because you can create change in your relationships.
This isn't about scripts or awkward communication tricks.
It's about learning the skills you were never taught, in an easy format and at your own pace — so you can communicate clearly, confidently, and in a way that truly connects.
Join My Communication Tools® Today
My Communication Tools® exists to help people build more meaningful relationships, address their differences more thoughtfully, and take charge of how they show up in their lives — so they can connect, be heard, and become their best selves.
This valuable program is intentionally priced at just $79 to make it accessible to more people and create a bigger impact.
🚀 Instant access when you enroll
⏳ 90-day access to the full program
❌ No money-back guarantee (because you get everything upfront)
⚠️ This is an educational program, not a substitute for medical treatment, mental health care, or any other professional services. If you require professional help, we encourage you to seek a qualified provider.
My Communication Tools® is more than just a course. It's a unique chance to learn about yourself, build confidence, and feel ready to express what you want and need to say. Along the way, you’ll gain personal agency and create stronger relationships.