Difficult conversations are hard for so many reasons.
Maybe you're not sure how to start because you don't want to make things worse.
Maybe, like always, you keep the peace and say nothing, only to find yourself in the same place again.
Or maybe you speak up and replay the conversation, wondering if you said too much, too little, or wishing you had handled it differently.
Most people were never taught how to communicate effectively. That’s why these conversations feel harder than they should.
This isn’t about trying harder. It’s about having the right tools.
You don't have to figure it out on your own.
My Communication Tools®
A simple, proven approach to help you say what you want to say, feel more confident and connected, and handle difficult conversations.
No scripts. Just your words and practical strategies that actually work.
This is for you if any of these sound familiar:
• You avoid conversations, even when you know something needs to be said
• You say things in the moment and regret it later
• You feel uneasy having real conversations and tend to handle things over text
• You shut down, get defensive, or feel overwhelmed
• You wait for the other person to notice that something is wrong
• You want to improve a relationship or break a pattern
• You want the confidence to speak up or set a boundary, even if that doesn’t come naturally to you
You’re not the problem.
You just need a better approach.
Imagine knowing how to start the conversation…
and what to say once you do.
Without second-guessing yourself
or worrying you’ll make things worse.
My Communication Tools®
A simple, practical program that gives you the tools to communicate with clarity, confidence, and connection, even when it's hard.
Get instant access for $79.
Real People. Real Results.
Tools that transform conversations, lower tension, and bring people closer.
CLARITY
Debra has a way of breaking things down into practical terms, making you feel as if she’s talking to you. Whether you're dealing with relationship challenges or emotional struggles, My Communication Tools® is filled with insights that work, and you'll feel the difference right away.
- Phoebe Kessler, LCSW
CONNECTION
This program completely transformed my relationship with my teenage daughter. We went from constant tension to a healthy, loving relationship built on mutual respect. The tools are simple, clear, and they work. I use them every day.
- Shirley Catalano
CONFIDENCE
The lessons are short, engaging, and easy to apply. These tools helped me find the right words for tough conversations and they continue to strengthen every relationship that matters.
- Steve Lassman
These skills should have been taught in school.
But they weren’t.
We learned math, science, and English.
Not how to talk when things feel tense, hurtful, or hard.
That’s not a character flaw.
It’s a skill gap.
And once you learn the right tools, everything changes.
Meet Debra Roberts, LCSW,
Creator of My Communication Tools®
With 30+ years of experience as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, trauma-trained clinician, and business consultant, Debra has helped thousands of people and organizations improve how they communicate.
After seeing consistent, lasting results, she developed her proprietary communication model, The Relationship Protocol®, a practical, common-sense approach that anyone can use.
Debra is a columnist for Inc.com and has published more than 60 articles on communication, leadership, and workplace culture. Her work has been featured in The New York Times, The Cut, Business Insider, as well as numerous podcasts and media platforms.
Now, she’s bringing these same tools to you in a simple, accessible program designed to help you communicate with more clarity, confidence, and control, even when it’s hard.
🛠️ For therapists, coaches, and mental health professionals
These tools aren't just for your clients.
They're for you, too.
Learn the method, integrate it into your work, and share the tools with the people you work with. It will strengthen your sessions, support faster progress, and help your clients communicate better in their everyday lives. These are the same tools I've used with clients for over 30 years because they work quickly and create meaningful, lasting change.
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What's Inside My Communication Tools®
✔ 10 short lessons (about 2 hours total)
Short, focused lessons to help you understand yourself and express yourself more clearly.
✔ Workbook
Simple questions after each lesson to help you apply what you're learning. Your answers are private and just for you.
✔ 30 Days of encouraging text reminders
Short, encouraging text messages to help you stay on track and put the material into practice.
✔ Check-In Journal
A place to build awareness, reflect on your experiences, and notice meaningful shifts over time.
Here's How It Works: (It’s Simple!)
- Log in and get started with a quick welcome video.
- Watch the short lessons at your own pace.
- Use the tools in real conversations and daily interactions.
- Start seeing results and feeling more confident in how you show up in every conversation.
Your Conversations Shape Your Life
Stop replaying what you wish you said
and start feeling confident in what you say next.
Learn the tools to communicate clearly, confidently, and build the connections you want.
Join My Communication Tools® Today
Learn how to start the conversations you’ve been avoiding and handle them with clarity and confidence.
✔ Instant access when you enroll
✔ 90-day access to the full program from the date of enrollment
✔ Because you receive full access immediately, all sales are final. Everything is provided upfront so you can begin right away.
What This Program Is Not
This is an educational program, not therapy, coaching, or a substitute for mental health care.
- There is no personal messaging or individualized advice.
- You'll receive automated reminders, not one-on-one support.
- The focus is on practical tools you can apply independently in everyday conversations.
My Communication Tools® is more than just a course.
It’s a practical way to build confidence, understand yourself better, and feel ready to say what you need to say, even in hard moments.
Ready to get started, or give this program as a gift?
Get instant access to My Communication Tools® today.