When conversations feel confusing, tense, or distant, and you don’t know how to say what you need to say—here’s how to get back on the same page.
My Communication Tools®
Most people were never taught how to communicate in general, so of course challenging or important interactions feel harder.
You don’t need more silence, more arguments, or more “we’ll talk later.”
You need clear, simple tools that actually help you talk without getting angry, defensive, or shutting down.
This is the proven framework for everyone—individuals, couples, and even avoiders who want to speak up, feel more in control, and feel more connected.
(No scripts—just your words and proven common-sense strategies.)
These tools are based on a proven framework developed from decades of real-world experience.
We all know that moment when a conversation never quite starts, or when it goes off track, and we’re not sure what to do next.
So we guess.
We overthink.
We shut down, or we say too much.
We hope the tension will fade on its own.
Maybe you keep thinking “I should speak up… I should say something… but I don’t know how.”
So you wait.
And waiting starts to feel like the safest option.
Until it doesn’t.
Maybe this happens with your partner, a parent, a friend, or someone at work.
And it takes a toll.
It creates distance.
Misunderstandings.
Stress you carry around all day.
You start walking on eggshells.
Replaying old conversations.
Avoiding new ones because you don’t want to make things worse.
None of that means something is “wrong” with you or the relationship.
It means you were never taught a better way.
And staying in this cycle is what keeps things stuck.
Because the hardest part of most conversations isn’t what happens next. It’s usually knowing how to begin.
Now imagine if conversations didn’t feel so heavy or confusing.
Imagine knowing how to start, and what to say once you do, without second-guessing yourself.
Or worrying you'll make things worse.
Imagine feeling steady instead of reactive.
Clear instead of confused.
Connected instead of distant.
What if you could talk about the hard things calmly and actually feel heard?
What if you could speak up without shutting down or getting defensive?
And what if improving your conversations didn’t require hours of therapy, a big time commitment, or memorizing scripts?
Just a simple, practical framework you can use with anyone.
That’s the shift people experience every day when they learn these tools.
Real People. Real Results.
Tools that transform conversations, lower tension, and bring people closer.
Debra has a way of breaking things down into practical terms, making you feel as if she’s talking to you. Whether you're dealing with relationship challenges or emotional struggles, My Communication Tools® is filled with insights that work, and you'll feel the difference right away.
- Phoebe Kessler, LCSW
This program completely transformed my relationship with my teenage daughter. We went from constant tension to a healthy, loving relationship built on mutual respect. The tools are simple, clear, and they work. I use them every day.
- Shirley Catalano
The lessons are short, engaging, and easy to apply. These tools helped me find the right words for tough conversations and they strengthen every relationship that matters.
- Steve Lassman
These skills should have been taught in school.
But they weren’t.
We learned math, science, and English.
Not how to talk when we’re hurt, stressed, or unsure what to say.
We weren’t taught how to handle misunderstanding, stay calm in conflict, or communicate in a way that actually brings people closer.
So we do the best we can.
We repeat what we saw growing up.
We fall into habits that don’t really work, like avoiding hard topics, overexplaining, shutting down, or getting reactive.
That’s not a character flaw. It’s a skill gap.
And once you learn the right tools, everything changes.
Your confidence.
Your clarity.
Your relationships.
The way you show up in every conversation.
The tools aren’t complicated. They’re just new.
And when you finally learn them, everything gets easier.
This isn’t just another communication course.
- It’s a proven, practical system you can use in every part of your life.
- Every important relationship needs a strong foundation. And while the earlier you start, the easier it is, it’s never too late.
- You can make meaningful changes even if the other person isn’t ready, isn’t interested, or doesn’t know how to meet you there yet.
Meet Debra Roberts, LCSW,
Creator of My Cmmunication Tools®
With 30+ years of experience as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, trauma-trained clinician, and business consultant, Debra has helped thousands of people transform the way they communicate.
After seeing consistent, fast, and lasting results with her clients, Debra created her proven and proprietary communication model, The Relationship Protocol®, a practical, common-sense approach that anyone can use.
Debra is a columnist for Inc.com, and has written more than 60 articles on communication, leadership and workplace culture. Her work has also been featured in The New York Times, The Cut, Business Insider, and other leading publications. Debra has been a guest on top podcasts like So Money with Farnoosh Torabi, Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore, and Why Not Do Both with Kellie Sbrocchi.
Now, she's bringing these same tools to you for just $79, driven by her mission toto help people communicate with more clarity, confidence, and care, even when it’s hard.
🛠️ For therapists, coaches, and mental health professionals
These tools aren't just for your clients. They're for you, too.
Take the program, learn the method, integrate it into your sessions, and recommend it to the people you support.
It strengthen your work, speeds up progress, and helps clients communicate better, both in sessions and in real life.
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What's Inside My Communication Tools®
✔ 10 Short, on-demand lessons (10-15 minutes each)
Clear, practical lessons that help you understand yourself and communicate more effectively.
✔ Workbook
Answer a few simple questions after each lesson to personalize what you're learning. Your answers are private and just for you.
✔ 30 Days of Accountability Reminders
Short, encouraging text messages to help you stay on track.
✔ Check-In Journal
Reflect on your progress and notice real changes over time.
Here's How It Works: (It’s Simple!)
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Log in and get started with a quick welcome video.
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Watch the short lessons at your own pace.
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Use the tools in your real conversations and daily interactions.
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See results quickly as you feel more confident in how you show up.
Your Conversations Shape Your Life
Don’t let another day pass by wishing things were different.
Stop replaying old conversations and wondering what you should have said.
You can set the tone for yourself, your relationships, and your life.
You don’t have to wait for someone else to change.
This isn’t about scripts or awkward communication tricks.
It’s about learning the skills you were never taught, in a simple format and at your own pace, so you can communicate clearly, confidently, and in a way that truly connects.
Join My Communication Tools® Today
My Communication Tools® helps people build stronger relationships, address their differences more thoughtfully, and take control of how they show, so they can connect, be heard, and feel confident being themselves.
The program is intentionally priced at just $79 to make it accessible to more people and create real impact.
✔ Instant access when you enroll
✔ 90-day access to the full program from the date of enrollment
✔ No money-back guarantee (you receive everything upfront)
⚠️ This is an educational program only. It is not a substitute for medical treatment, mental health care, or any other professional services. If you need more support than this program can provide, we encourage you to seek help from a qualified provider.